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March 23, 20253 min read

Put Yourself First or Watch Everything Burn

Running a small business isn’t just a job—it’s a war.

If you’re a small business owner, you already know this. The world is stacked against you.

You take all the risks.
You create jobs.
You build the connections that hold communities together.
You bring ideas to life, turning dreams into reality.

And yet, what do you get in return?

Endless stress.
A financial system designed to favor big corporations.
No safety net—everyone gets paid before you.

Governments and society love to praise small businesses, but when it comes to actual support? Crickets.

But here’s the hard truth: If YOU don’t put yourself first, no one else will.

You Are the Machine—And You Need Maintenance

If a machine breaks down, a company repairs it immediately. Why? Because it’s critical to the business.

Yet small business owners run themselves into the ground, thinking they can just “push through.”

👎 You work 14-hour days.
👎 You don’t pay yourself enough.
👎 You sacrifice your health, sleep, and happiness.

And for what? So that everyone else gets paid before you?

That’s insanity.

You Must Prioritize Yourself—Or Your Business Will Suffer

1. Your Health Comes First

A burned-out business owner is a failing business owner. You need to protect your body and mind like your most valuable asset—because it is.

🚀 Book regular massages to release tension and stay physically strong.
🚀 Get a coach, mentor, or therapist to keep your mind sharp and your stress under control.
🚀 Eat well, exercise, and sleep properly. Your body is your power source—treat it that way.

2. Your Wealth Comes First

If you’re not making real money, your business is just an expensive hobby. Your earnings come before anything else.

🔥 Stop underpricing yourself. Charge what you’re worth.
🔥 Make sure you get paid first—not last.
🔥 Invest in growth and automation to make your income predictable.

3. Reduce Stress with Smart Automation (Without Losing the Human Touch)

Small business owners drown in admin, marketing, and communication tasks that suck time and energy. The key is to automate without dehumanizing.

Automate lead follow-ups with email sequences that feel personal.
Use AI-powered chat and SMS to engage customers quickly, but genuinely.
Set up systems for recurring tasks so you’re not manually sending invoices, reminders, or updates.
Use a CRM to track customer behavior so you know when and how to reconnect.

You didn’t start a business to spend your life buried in admin. Systemize everything that doesn’t need your personal touch.

Do this right, and you get to spend more time doing what you actually love:
🔥 Serving customers.
🔥 Delivering your product or service.
🔥 Growing your business with less stress and more profit.

4. Your Spirit Comes First

Business isn’t just numbers—it’s energy. If you’re drained, frustrated, and empty, your business will reflect that.

🌿 Find a spiritual guide or mentor—someone who keeps you centered.
🌿 Take time off—not just to rest, but to reconnect with your vision.
🌿 Surround yourself with winners—other entrepreneurs who push and inspire you.

Small Business Owners Deserve More Recognition & Reward

The government should be rewarding you. Society should be celebrating you.

Why? Because small business owners are the lifeblood of the economy.

👊 You create the jobs.
👊 You bring innovation.
👊 You build local communities.

Yet big corporations get the bailouts, the tax breaks, and the funding. You? You’re left to fight for survival.

You Are a Modern-Day Warrior

🔥 You are the dreamer, the builder, the risk-taker.
🔥 You are the connection in your community.
🔥 You are the creator of ideas, services, and change.

But even warriors need rest, strategy, and self-care.

🚀 Prioritize yourself. Get paid first. Take care of your mind, body, and spirit.
🚀 Systemize and automate the work that slows you down.
🚀 Build a business that serves you—not the other way around.

Because if you burn out, the business burns with you. And the world needs more warriors like you, not less.

 

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Nathan Siekierski

25 Years of Business Start up, Business Growth, Sales, Psychology, Franchising, Licensing, M&A, Exit Strategies, Hight Ticket Sales, Strategy

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